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Suite aux Mp et aux demande je publie la version V.O.
Toute fois pour ceux qui souhaite avoir la version fr je pourrais éventuellement la publier aussi bien que la traduction soit nul je l'admet.

The Following is essentially the stripped-down skeleton of my Outer Game. Later posts in this thread will detail other aspects that will make your game more "solid."

I have desgined this to be a practical guide for beginners (or intermediates who seek a simpler, more effective style of pickup) with just the bare essentials in mind. Try to follow this model without overcomplicating it with additional material at first so that nothing will get in the way of you understanding how this is working in the field.

Oh, and if you haven't already done the Newbie Mission ( [link] ), do that before reading this shit.

Focus on and practice (in-field) one section at a time. Once you've gotten the hang of each section individually, bring them all together to work simultaneously. Don't forget to write Field Reports to track your progress.

1. Opening

For your opener, simply saying "hi" and introducing yourself with a smile and a handshake will do. No pressure. It's just being social. Offer your name first and they will tell you theirs.

"Alright, Chief. That sounds fine for when the girl is alone, but what about for groups of multiple people? Don't I need to open the entire set?"

You don't need to engage the entire set with your opener. When there is a group of people gathered anywhere, not everyone is going be talking all at the same time. You can open a single individual from the group without talking to anyone else at first. Sometimes, one or a few people are even going to be completely disengaged from whatever is going on within their set.

Introduce yourself to the girl you're interested in (or anyone from the group, for that matter - but keep in mind that you will likely have the most rapport with whomever you spoke to first) and start talking to her (see Conversation).

Be aware of your surroundings. If you start feeling tension because of the other people in her group, smile, make eye contact, and introduce yourself to everyone with a firm and friendly handshake. Don't be afraid to ask for people's names a second time if you didn't catch them or if you immediately forgot them.

Opening a girl this way has a very low chance of rejection because she is going to want to reciprocate your politeness. You're both operating under the frame of "meeting new people is normal"; any socially aware person would have that frame if he or she were out at a public place like a bar. And, since you're physically close enough to shake hands, it's going to be hard to ignore you.

2. The Compliance Ladder


In order to understand the compliance ladder you must understand the foot-in-the-door phenomenon from the field of social psychology.

Foot-in-the-door phenomenon: People’s tendency to comply more readily with a large request if they have already agreed to a smaller favor.
(source: [link] )

In short, the compliance ladder is a series of compliance tests that gradually increases in investment. By "investment" I mean how much energy she needs to expend in order to pass your compliance test.

The first thing you need to do on this ladder is to make a small request. Hey, but guess what? You've already begun the process by offering your hand for a handshake. She passed your first compliance test by offering her hand for a handshake.

Other low-investment compliance tests include:
* Asking her to hold something for you while you do something else
* Asking her to get you a glass of water if she's going to the bar to get herself another drink
* Asking her to watch your stuff while you go to the bathroom
* Seeing if she accepts low-risk kino such as touching her shoulder to emphasize a point

After she passes a compliance test, move up the ladder by giving her a bigger compliance test. Keep doing this until you're having sex.

If at any point she does not pass a compliance test, just move down one step on the compliance ladder and do more compliance tests from that level. Once she passes a couple of those, try the next step again, or try to find a step between those two steps for a smoother transition.

Examples of bigger compliance tests, roughly in order of low-investment to high-investment, include:
* Seeing if she lets you take her hand and spin her around
* Closer physical proximity
* Asking her if she can keep a secret
* Whispering a secret into her ear
* Hug
* Seeing if she accepts THE CLAW (your arm over her shoulder)
* Seeing if she lets you hold her hand as you talk to her
* Pointing to your cheek to let her kiss you on the cheek as a "reward" for passing the previous compliance test
* Touching her hair
* Touching her face
* Kissing her on the cheek
* Kiss
* Make out
* Groping
* ...and so on and so forth

These are just a FEW examples. In addition to these compliance tests, get creative and make your own compliance tests.

If you haven't figured this out already, each step on the compliance ladder has a physical/kino aspect to it. I realize that my examples lists pretty much resembles a kino escalation ladder. Well, compliance is pretty much the unsung hero of any sort of escalation. Forget looking for IOIs; look for compliance.

So, to answer any questions like "How do I kiss her?" The answer is this: Work your way up the compliance ladder by getting her to do stuff that you think requires less investment from her than a kiss.