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Suite au post de Zekeh sur le changement de la dynamique de couple après la naissance d'un enfant, j'ai trouvé un post expliquant de façon assez ludique (en nous comparant à des hommes des cavernes) les dynamiques du couple marié, surtout le pourquoi du comment une petite amie attentionnée devient une épouse négligeant son mari.
Votre avis les membres mariés, totalement à coté de la plaque, ou y a t il un semblant de vérité?

Why You Must Be Willing to Nuke Your Nuclear Family : marriedredpill

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A long time ago somewhere along the line in your lizard brain you evolved to have an instinct to protect and serve your woman and children. The difference today is that this instinct (and great trait, I believe) has been manipulated to be used against you – and to prey on these masculine so that you give them from a place of neediness rather than abundance.

No better social programming that relies on your hard-wired evolutionary psychology than this: The nuclear family. It draws on your desire to protect and provide for those closest to you – at all costs. AT. ALL COSTS. But now, you likely approach this act of giving to keep your woman and children.

Most men do (and continue to) aspire to the idea of the Nuclear Family. Shitty parents? I’ll do better. Great parents? I want to do that too. It is programmed into our DNA to love, protect and provide security to women and our children. It's not wrong, it's just all the rules have changed.

Hypergamy is hard-wired into a woman's DNA. The desire to protect and serve their tribe is also wired into a strong masculine man’s DNA.

Cavemen would go out hunting and gathering to support their (notice the ownership?) cavewoman and raise their cavebabies. If she stopped doing her part by taking care of the kids and him, giving him easy access to sex, and keeping the cave tidy and meals cooked - he would kick her out and get a new cavewoman - because there would be a line of cavebitches outside his cave who are in line to be with a high value caveman that could hunt, gather and protect little cavewomen and cavebabies. This was how a man provided value and was a fair arrangement between the sexes. She would spend her entire youth learning the skills required to be a good cavewoman so she was valuable to a caveman. Conversely, the caveboy would spend his entire youth learning the skills required to be a valuable caveman and if he chose, to gift that to a cavewoman. The man had the power of choice. He was the gatekeeper to commitment.

Even with choice, the caveman was more likely to function higher in the dominance hierarchy by having a cavewoman to add value to his life. The women did not have a choice – as their skills were developed to amplify and enhance that of the man’s. Together they could rise up the dominance hierarchy where their odds of survival were higher with access to more resources. Men experienced freedom and challenge from the tribe. Women experienced protection, security and praise from the tribe. And so the bond was formed that allowed both of them to fulfill their deepest desires and fulfill a mutual cycle of gifting.

This is where the blue-pill comes in. Modern-CavewomenTM say to you: "Look, everything is going to be fine! Yeah, cavewomen are hard work. But if you just listen to what I need, and compromise, and take good care of ME, and give ME everything I WANT... ME... I mean WE.... can have an equal partner marriage and be happy. And if you decide you want to fuck other cavewomen - well that's just wrong! You're a not a good caveman for doing that! Now, come over here and let me suck your little cavedick."

How can you not see the manipulation in that?

How can you not see the solipsism in that?

Since when has being a fantastic man had anything to do with making her the prize?

Do you know what a high value caveman would do if he heard that shit? He'd nope the fuck out and get another cavewoman. In a matter of weeks the she would die, find another suitable protector and mate, or find a way to get Chad McCavetroll to throw her some food scraps for fucking him on the side of the cave, or somehow adopt caveman skills like hunting (which hold no value to a caveman) and adapt to living alone in a cave lonely as fuck with her 4 sabretooth cavecats.

Do see the pattern here with Modern-Cavewoman?

Your woman will become selfish and ungrateful for how many fields you plow and how great you look because in the back of your mind you always are trying to live up to her equal standard of being a “Good Caveman” and wouldn't dare fuck another cavewoman.

She LITERALLY has you BY THE BALLS.

Inevitably, we know this doesn't fulfill their hypergamous desire to fuck the winner in the long run. The entire focus is on her and controlling the outcomes - which is a masculine caveman strength. Not feminine.

Basically, this is a long way of explaining RP 101 Rational Male concepts to you (sidebar already dude).

Without changing your mental models, you're letting your woman know that all those cavebitches that will be lined up at your cave are off limits, which cancels out every need for her to do her part to complete the cycle required for mutual success. She doesn't have to fuck, clean, look pleasant with a soft demeanor, or cook because... why would a high value caveman turn down hot as fuck cavebitches who really desire to fuck him when at the same time, she is not giving him that same desire and doing her part?

Because deep down he's a cavefaggot.

And dread is ALWAYS meaningless and backfires on faggots.

Yeah, it’s waaay fucking backwards.
I mean, kind of.

Let's bring it all back full circle now. I wrote in this post:

She WANTS you to pass this test. She desires in the darkest parts of who she is as a woman for you to fucking crush this and make yourself a man of high value. This woman has likely been on your team all along.

And here's the big secret that I want to share with you, brother.

She WANTS you to be willing and able to NUKE it all.

Your woman wants you to be able to take your pick of the best cavebitches outside your cave waiting on you, but you still pick her. This signals to her that she is higher value than all those caveTHOTS, has better skills, is better in the cavebed, and makes her more worthy than any other woman out there. She doesn't even have to say anything. Even if the other cavebitches give her shit; maybe telling her they cook a better venison roast, or they can suck cavedick better, or they're prettier and younger, or have some kind of great value above and beyond what she can offer....

All she has to do is look at them, look at you, realize that this high value caveman is with her over them, and that's all the proof she needs to say: "Look cavebitches, whatever. Look what I have. Ya'll can fuck off - I've got the best and you don’t. How 'bout them caveapples?"

And every time you she secretly knows you’ll refuse to pick one of the other cavebitches because of some retarded bluepill indoctrination, she secretly feels less and less valuable to her hypergamous cavesisters and moves further down the dominance hierarchy where she has more unattractive options. But, if you don't need side-cavewoman because YOURS is doing her part very well – and you let her know with an acceptable amount of praise through your ACTIONS - she knows she's the most valuable woman in line. Period. Even Modern CavewomenTM derive their greatest sense of value in the world from this feeling.

Do you ever notice how happy women are to be on the arm of a high value man in public? Take a look next time you see one. They are beaming with feminine energy and light up a room. Because they are happy.

Otherwise, your woman feelz like her man isn't as valuable, and in turn, she holds no value either. That's the worst thing that can happen to her in this world, so her epic test either serves her by weeding you out - or making you high value. A side effect of this high value is that you then have your pick. She desires in the darkest parts of who she is to be your first pick.

Your woman wants you to not need her. She despises your neediness in every hidden corner of your mind and will prey on it. Only when you no longer need her or your nuclear little family will she understand that you have the power of choice and she can NO LONGER hold the power of the nuclear family hostage against you. Valuable men are always the gatekeepers of commitment, and she’s not valuable enough to commit to – even with all the new fucked up Marriage 2.0 rules. Now that, sir, is a statement to her ego.

She knows how much you have always dreamed of having a nuclear family with loving parents and children together. She feels through all this – and is reinforced by your actions and words. She feels through every fiber of your being that you love your children in a powerful way and wish to be a part of their lives.

But she also knows that the rules have changed in her favor**.** AWALT? Yes. Don’t think for a fucking second that they haven’t hamstered and questioned their security (along with their children) if you two split up. She knows it would suck, but she could probably milk you of enough resources to make everything “ok”. This is a game you cannot win.